You’ve probably worked with someone like this: confident, assertive, full of ideas and absolutely certain they're right.
At first, it’s refreshing. Confidence is energizing. But over time, it starts to show cracks. They shut down others’ suggestions. Take risky bets. Brush off feedback. Eventually, the team is off-track, disengaged, or just plain frustrated.
That’s the tricky thing about overconfidence. It hides in plain sight, often masquerading as leadership.
What is overconfidence, really?
Psychologists define overconfidence as a mismatch between perceived ability and actual ability. It comes in three forms:
- Overestimation: “I’m definitely better than average.”
- Overplacement: “I’m better than my peers.”
- Overprecision: “I’m 100% sure I’m right.”
In the workplace, overconfidence shows up when people overrate their ideas, underplay risks, and dominate conversations. As a result, bad decisions are made, warning signs are missed, and teams get quieter and stop pushing back.
Overconfidence and narcissism - a dangerous duo
Overconfidence is closely tied to narcissism, a personality trait marked by arrogance, entitlement, and a hunger for admiration. Narcissistic leaders often display inflated confidence to assert dominance, but it comes at a cost.
Evidence suggests that narcissistic leaders frequently overestimate their competence and ignore critical feedback, damaging trust and collaboration. Their teams may initially admire their boldness, but over time, performance suffers as their self-focus overshadows group goals.
In other words, narcissism fuels overconfidence, and together they create leaders who look powerful but often leave a trail of poor decisions and disengaged employees.
Confidence vs. humility: find the sweet spot
To be clear, confidence isn’t the enemy. Teams need bold thinkers and decisive leaders. But confidence without self-awareness? That’s where trouble starts.
What truly effective leaders do differently is combine confidence with humility. They’re not afraid to say, “I don’t know,” or “Let’s hear another perspective.”
Research shows that humble leaders build stronger teams: people speak up more, learn faster, and stay engaged longer. That’s because humility creates space for others to contribute. That’s where innovation lives.
4 simple ways to keep overconfidence in check
Here are four practical strategies to build a more grounded, self-aware team:
1. Run pre-mortems
Before launching a project, ask the team: “Assume this fails. What went wrong?” This helps uncover blind spots and reduce unwarranted optimism.
2. Use 360 feedback
People often don’t know how they come across. Regular, structured feedback (from peers, not just managers) helps overconfident individuals see the gap between intent and impact.
3. Model uncertainty
As a leader, say things like “I’m not sure,” or “What am I missing?” This gives others permission to challenge ideas and speak up.
4. Track predictions
Encourage team members to write down their assumptions or forecasts. Then, revisit them later. This “confidence vs. accuracy” calibration improves decision-making over time.
Confidence is good. But when it becomes a shield against learning or feedback, it holds teams back. If you're a leader, your job isn’t just to be right, it’s to create an environment where the best ideas win, not just the loudest ones. That means knowing when to speak up and when to step back.
